I tried searching through iTunes musicstore too, just in case I could catch it in the lists, but I don't know the title of the song either!
I *do* remember the rythym (which I can't reproduce here) and what I believe are some of the lyrics. I've never actually known the lyrics so if I'm wrong/off, then you know why. *gulp* Here goes nothing..
"i'm the one that you want..(?)" then later in the song, and the end "so i might as well crash" ? i think.
It's got a dark sound to it and the vocals are fuzzy under the music. I remember hearing this very popular song a LOT when it was regularly played.
Even your best guess is much appreciated. Thanks so much!